Ten Tips on Forgiveness

Rely on God’s Grace

With grace, we can forgive others as God has forgiven us.

Seek God’s Forgiveness

Knowing we’re forgiven makes it easier to forgive.

Forgive Yourself

It’s hard to give others what we deny ourselves.

Forgive, but Don’t Forget

Forgetting a great hurt isn’t possible. But we can let go.

Don’t Set Conditions

Forgiveness is a free gift, given without restrictions or expectations.

Analyze the Situation

Did we play a role in our being hurt? Was the one who hurt us hurting too?

Understand the Other

Bad behavior can spring from bad circumstances.

Feel Your Anger

Feeling angry after a hurt is normal. But don’t let it harden into resentment.

Keep on Keeping on

Forgiveness is a marathon, not a sprint. There’s grace in the struggle.

Find a Friend

A wise friend, counselor, or minister can help us forgive.

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