Approximately 80 percent of parents abort their unborn children when prenatal screening reveals the probability of some sort of fetal abnormality.(87) The termination of potentially “abnormal” children ought to give all people great pause, but especially feminist- and liberal-minded people. We are a people who claim to value difference, and who make myriad efforts to assist those with disabilities. Yet many in our day are aghast when they hear of a mother who knowingly brings to term a child with genetic abnormalities.(88)
Women carrying a child expected to die in utero or soon after birth are often encouraged to abort in order to “get it over with.” Yet mothers and fathers who allow the process of sickness and death to run its natural course avoid culpability in their sick child’s death. Knowing that they did not cause their child’s death will make it easier for them to grieve the loss of their unborn or infant child.(89) As in the case of euthanasia of the elderly, caregivers deprive themselves of the opportunity to grow in love and compassion when they accelerate the dying process of a loved one. They also deny the inherent dignity and value of their “imperfect” child (or ailing parent). Thus they would perpetuate the current cultural myth that a person’s worth is found not in her status as a human being but in her ability to produce and consume.
Mothers and fathers whose unborn child will likely survive her disabilities are called to a grand, though exceptionally difficult, task of heroic love. They may discern that, even with the grace of God, they have neither the emotional nor financial resources to care for a disabled child. In such a case, scores of loving adoptive parents wait for the opportunity to nurture such children, if only birth parents would give them that chance.(90)
Ironically, aborting children with genetic abnormalities fails to help mothers and fathers to “get it over with.” Research indicates that the psychological stress that genetic abortion causes both mothers and fathers is usually more severe than abortion in the event of an unwanted pregnancy.(91) The pressure to produce a perfect child, acceptable to many doctors, insurers, and society at large, is just too difficult to bear.
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87. Caroline Mansfield, Suellen Hopfer, and Theresa M. Marteau, “Termination Rates After Prenatal Diagnosis of Down Syndrome, Spina Bifida, Anencephaly, and Turner and Klinefelter Syndromes: A Systematic Literature Review,” Prenatal Diagnosis 19, no. 9 (September 1999): 808–12.
88. See Elizabeth Schiltz, “Living in the Shadow of Mönchberg: Prenatal Testing and Genetic Abortion” in The Cost of “Choice,” 39–49; see also Melinda Tankard Reist, Defiant Birth: Women Who Resist Medical Eugenics (North Melbourne, Vic.: Spinifex Press, 2006).
89. See B. Calhoun et al., “Perinatal Hospice: Comprehensive Care for the Family of the Fetus with a Lethal Condition,” Journal of Reproductive Medicine 48, no. 5 (May 2003): 343–48; N. Hoeldtke and B. Calhoun, “Perinatal Hospice,” American Journal of Obstetrics & Gynecology 185, no. 3 (September 2001): 525–29.
90. Michael Alison Chandler, “Leap of Love: Adoptions of Children with Down Syndrome Are on the Increase,” Washington Post, November 9, 2008, C01 (reporting that 200 families are on a waiting list to adopt a child with Down syndrome in the United States).
91. Blumberg, B.D. et al., "The Psychological Sequelae of Abortion Performed for Genetic Indication," American Journal of Obstetrics & Gynecology 122, no. 7 (August 1, 1975): 799-808 (reporting that depression after genetic abortion was much higher than depression after elective abortion).
Tough Cases: Fetal Abnormalities